Job 3-4 – The Reality of Suffering and Our
Reaction to It
In Job chapters three and four we
are confronted with two realities. First we notice that even the righteous can
suffer unimaginable pain. Have you ever been brought down to a low point in
life that forced you to ask the same question as Job? Why were you even born?
We observe the rawness of Job’s emotions as he questions his very existence
throughout chapter three.
As we struggle with the ups and
downs of life, we must constantly realize that our existence is not like the
sitcoms of television. Problems there are minimal at best and can be neatly
resolved within a thirty minute or one hour timeframe. Real life is messy.
Similarly to Job (but probably not on the same scale) we constantly suffer pain
and loss. I am at the stage in life where many of the people that helped raise
and mentor me are now departing this life. That is very difficult. Ultimately,
we all are touched by death at every stage in life. Perhaps you are at the age
where your peers are starting to pass away. This can be very disconcerting and
difficult to understand. Yet it is inevitable.
Other struggles include the loss of
health, material possessions, income, employment, or relationships with
significant others. All of which produce a unique hurt in our lives. Sometimes
the pain reaches a point where we question our very existence. It is during
these times when we might even begin to question God. Is He angry with me? Has
he completely forsaken me? Am I all alone? Rest assured that these are all
natural concerns during times of great pain.
The answer to this question is that
God has not abandoned us. In Job’s case you will recall that he was intimately
involved in the situation. This was a trial of Job’s faith. Job was being tested.
Perhaps you are too. Regardless of the reasons why you are suffering, Scripture
teaches us that our God is omnipresent. That means that he is everywhere
present and nowhere absent. He knows your situation. Job understood this truth.
Later he would exclaim in Job 13:15,
“Though he slay me, yet will I trust in
him: but I will maintain mine own ways before him.” Job knew that God was
there with him! Although his pain was immense, God was still present. That is
the case with us as well. Paul would later write:
Hebrews 13:5-6 Let your conversation be without
covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I
will never leave thee, nor forsake thee. So that we may boldly say, The Lord is
my helper, and I will not fear what man shall do unto me.
He will never leave us. Yes, there
is a time for sorrow, but let us not sorrow as those without hope. Our Lord
will lead, guide, and direct us in the midst of the most unimaginable trials of
life! Yea we can even be content regardless of the difficulties we face.
The second reality of life occurs
in the fourth chapter of Job. That is the fact that there will always be
somebody around willing to offer (ofttimes unsolicited) advice to you regarding
your situation. In this instance we meet Eliphaz the Temanite. At a casual
glance Eliphaz seemingly makes some good general points. The only problem with
them was that they in no way applied to Job. His comments are summed up in
verses 7 and 8:
Remember, I pray thee,
who ever perished, being innocent? or where were the righteous cut off? Even as
I have seen, they that plow iniquity, and sow wickedness, reap the same.
Eliphaz wrongly assumed that Job
must have committed some sort of iniquity and as a result God was punishing him
for his misdeeds. How many times do we jump to such conclusions? We see an
individual going through trials and our first thought is, “I wonder what they
did to deserve that?” My friends this ought not be so!
Some of the most hurtful words that
are exchanged between brothers and sisters in Christ are often veiled in the
form of unsolicited or incorrect advice. Many feelings have been needlessly
hurt because of the careless words of others. Job later likened the words of
Eliphaz to digging a pit for his friend. They were hurtful and not at all
beneficial.
The Bible teaches us that we are to
exercise care in what we say to others. There are times when what we might
perceive as helpful or encouraging actually has the opposite effect on the
hearer. We might think that we are ‘straightening out’ the one in which our
words are directed, but is what we are saying pleasing to God? James offers the
following warning:
James 1:19-20 Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every
man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath: For the wrath of man
worketh not the righteousness of God.
Paul exhorts us to be charitable in our dealings with others.
I believe that this applies in how we advise those in which we have influence.
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
Charity suffereth long, and is kind;
charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, Doth not
behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh
no evil; Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; Beareth all
things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.
Lord help us not to be miserable comforters! May we exercise
care with what we speak to our friends. May we be longsuffering towards those
that are going through troubled times. May we assume the best and not jump to
conclusions. May we exercise compassion towards all that are hurting in whom we
have contact. It is likely that we will find ourselves on the receiving end
sooner rather than later.
Blessings,
Michael D. Green, Jr.
Fort Wayne PBC